DIGNIFIED HOMEMAKING............
Hardly it makes any sense for a woman, the way she like it or not she have to live. There seems to be an insatiable demand for more fruitful life. in case of producing offspring and bringing them up it happens but why not in developing oneself ?
Woman meant to be a replica of God expressed only in prints. The phase she goes through with immense pleasure deteriorates when the surroundings discourage her to explicate. One fifth of the woman's world are only finding themselves beyond their harness. The thirst for love, self respect, security when not quenched some woman tend to become a Harridan. They are highly emotional, care for others more than they do self. Sometimes men take advantage over this therefore pushing them down effortlessly. Patience is sporadic for men where as women are born to be patient. But when it is triggered to exploit, it will explode in a deadly manner. Their sharpness and uniqueness rarely noticed creating vulnerability of women. Some struggle enormously to attain their desire to become what they want to be and finds success in it.
Recent times have seen more woman of substance as the mindset keeps changing. Most of the women we see or read about have achieved sky-high professionally but when comes to homemaking, we never even bother to think about that. Homemaking is as challenging than any other profession. Usually people feel very silly about this topic. A woman to become a best homemaker she should be very talented and creative. You may wonder what is there to be talented and creative to look after a house? You think merely a house but if so you are wrong.
House is just a place where you stay, to live it should be a home. To make it a home its a challenge. Multitasking thats what a woman have to enrol for. She has to do not only a single work at a time but should be multifarious organizer without scheduling. Dawn to dusk woman have to stand on an imaginary wheel to ride in and around her house to make it a lovely home. Even Sun and Moon have their time limits. She has to be alert round the clock.
Bringing up kids itself is the greatest task for every woman. But men are never bothered about their sufferings. When a woman get marry, she is supposed to be a good wife, good daughter in law and a good mother but people around wont even reciprocate her love and care. Where the good individual stands? Answer is a big question mark. Whatever and however others are she should be remarkable. Its her responsibility to be a good soul amidst worse. Most women don't even have time for preening. If at all they find some, it becomes a sin to do so. Such has been the culture where women are even subjected to become a victim of racial prejudice. There are circumstances where women are totally exploited after marriage. Some are merely treated as a caretaker of the house. She is not allowed or encouraged to enjoy her self interests.
Women should not be self centered, should not think about things for her own even meagre ones too. She should always be the sacrificing factor. Almost all part of the world people think of woman, a sacrificial lamb to the deity. Family should be the priority for women where career stands first to men. But why? In modern days this is why many women have succeeded in proving that both family and career could be railed in the same track. Most of them are not into professions even though they crave for. Due to various reasons many are rope tied that leaves scars permanently in their hearts. Some overcome easily but some goes into deep depression and lead their lives with intense pressure but pleasure. Always remember homemaking is as dignified as any other profession. Homemakers are the only managers with multiple department without assistance.
As most women are altruistic , they have to find their own interests and should have their "ME TIME". At least an hour a day should be only me, myself and mine. Each and every woman should explore their pleasures amidst pressures. Pleasures could even turn into productivity.
